Bending Reality

Bending Reality is the innovative process used by billionaire tech founders, CEOs and legendary leaders to make the impossible probable.

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Bending Reality


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Rikky Maas
The Alchemy Journey was incredibly transformative for me. Victoria helped me realize that I had a low-grade sense of feeling contracted - unsafe - that was always there. She helped me figure out where it came from, the specific things in my life that create it, and in our first one-on-one call, we completely cleared it out Read More
Rikky Maas
Co-founder & CEO of B&D Group
Unconventional wisdom is Victoria's superpower. Bending Reality is the 'How To' Guide for how to reach your personal peak without burning out. Building the first electric, hydrofoiling, self-driving boat required all of me. Victoria showed me that my mind can only take me so far and gave me the tools to access resources I didn’t even know I had. As an engineer, I often say, you can't fix a system unless you understand it. We humans are a system of complex thoughts, emotions and world perspectives. Victoria profoundly understands human systems and her insights are life-changing. After reading this book, you too will be able to make the impossible probable.
Sampriti Bhattacharyya
Co-founder & CEO of Navier, the first electric, hydrofoiling, self-driving boat
Victoria is an exceptional leader and truly independent thinker. Bending Reality reveals her unique insights into the entrepreneurial journey to help founders find success and inner peace along the way. It's the only book I brought with me in my recent move, and I wish I had it when I started Product Hunt years ago.
Ryan Hoover
Co-Founders of Honey, acquired by PayPal for $4 Billion
Ryan + Honey
Victoria is able to take complex, abstract concepts and distill them down into a simple working model that is somehow both profound yet obvious once you have it shown to you. As founders who've worked with Victoria through the most stressful and most rewarding years of our lives, we believe everyone should know this. The results have been life changing.
George Ruan and Ryan Hudson
Co-Founders of Honey, acquired by PayPal for $4 Billion
Hannu + Nikolai
Victoria is the real deal. The insights she shares in Bending Reality are a must-read for founders and future founders. You'll be amazed by what you can achieve. Her combination of rigorous strategy insights and ability to go deep into the subconscious mind is unique. She has not only helped execute a challenging pivot towards building next-generation covid vaccines, but, perhaps more importantly, has helped us expand our vision of what HelixNano is and can become: global transformation of human health.
Co-Founders of HelixNano, next-gen mRNA platform
Co-Founders of HelixNano, next-gen mRNA platform
Tony Tan
I've been working with Victoria in her Bending Reality Course for the past two months - am getting so much value that I'm signed up to continue till the rest of the year. I'm really grateful for Victoria's coaching and mentorship - she has gotten to the root cause of my limiting beliefs, and I have found her unique approach to mindset work really helpful. My partner also took Victoria's course, and I can see the impact on her as well. I highly recommend working with Victoria!
Tony Tan
Engineering Manager at Meta
I have never met someone with as much cultivated knowledge as Victoria has in her field. Her framework and tools from her Bending Reality Course have allowed me to grow my company in a direction that I could before, only dream of. This woman is magic.
Bri Ancia
Co-Founder of Ancia
Victoria is by far the best coach I have ever worked with! Her coaching transcends both professional & personal development, providing tools that apply across any goal you're looking to achieve. She's incredibly attentive & detail oriented, constantly tailoring her approach to the various focus areas of her clients. I have been working with Victoria for the past 3 months through her Bending Reality Course - I strongly recommend it!
Henrik Waerland
Project Manager at Specialist
Working with Victoria in her Bending Reality Course has been one of the most eye opening things I've done in my life. It's a cliche that we are often our own worst enemies, but the work I've done with Victoria has helped me deal with huge obstacles I didn't even know that I had. With her coaching I've elevated my life to a new level and I'm speeding towards goals I didn't think were worth dreaming about. It's surprising how heartwarming, gentle and beautiful this red pill experience with Victoria is, considering how aggressive the results are. I couldn't recommend working with Victoria more, she's a force of nature and will help you propel to new heights, both business and personal.
Mattias Gunneras
Co-Founder at Breakfast
I would take Victoria's other courses in a heartbeat! I left the Bending Reality Course with deep gratitude, trust in myself, and overflowing joy. Victoria's capacity to engage with everyone in all the details of their life is incredible, she's able to tune into your inner feelings and respond with great sharpness. Her highly structured lessons and exercises brought empowerment and coherency in both the ordinary and extraordinary moments in life. The lessons were simple yet challenging in a sense that I really had to face some truths that I was afraid of or blinded by in the past - With Victoria's sincere support, wisdom and perceptiveness, I was able to grow and open up to higher versions of myself. I also loved that the course was done in a group setting since everyone's courage and vulnerability magnified each other's compassion and strength to evolve. Victoria's unique teaching method and focused leadership has brought me tremendous peace and clarity - I wish others a meaningful journey with Victoria as well!
Yoon-Young Hur
Founder of Yoon-Young Hur Studio & Artist
I cannot recommend working with Victoria enough. If you get the chance, I suggest you grab it. Your life will never be the same. I signed up for the Bending Reality Course because, after years of dabbling in coaching and therapy, I was feeling stagnant and ready to throw the doors wide open to a life of possibilities. Victoria reframes the principles around capacity and success, not just professionally but I have also noticed a marked shift in my personal relationships and the pure enjoyment I get out of each day. My dreams are bigger, my heart is more open and I have so much excitement for what's to come. Financially, working with Victoria shifted things almost instantaneously. I went from feeling stretched very thin to being in a place of comfort and ease which is allowing me to pursue even more expansive goals. It has been truly life-altering.
Elyse Chambers
Marketing Manager at Decorist
Victoria is unlike any other coach in this industry. She is truly One of the Greats. With full confidence, I can recommend Victoria to anyone who is wanting to grow, heal, and create a more beautiful and meaningful life, one where the possibilities are endless. Victoria has changed not only my world and how I see it, but also the woman I am living in it. She is a true catalyst! My vision for my life and the impact I have on this earth has evolved and expanded. I've found a calmness in myself and learnt to show up with grace for myself and others through it all. Ultimately, Victoria has helped me to come home to myself and to be truer to who I really am, both in business and in life.
Danielle Gonsalves
COO at
I took Victoria's Bending Reality Course, and I loved it so much that I'm working on bringing her into my company. Victoria delivers powerful insights and tools in a way that intuitively resonates with each person in the room. The caliber of humans drawn to her work makes the group experience uniquely inspiring. I've witnessed the magic and seen Victoria uncover a spark that transforms those around her. Any person or company would be crazy not to hire her.
Anja Dunphy
VP at Avesis
I signed up for Bending Reality, the Course, to narrow my focus on some big brewing changes. I had already read Victoria's book, participated in her Alchemy Journey program and used those tools to experience quantum leaps. Joining Bending Reality was the perfect way to keep my momentum. During the program I experienced massive growth. I made the decision to take a month off from work, which would have previously been the most terrifying thing ever! I bought a dreamy home at the beach in Mexico, and I have already doubled my income this year and we aren't even half way through the year. I would highly recommend working with Victoria. She not only is an excellent guide, but she very clearly lives and breathes what she is teaching. If you are ready to make leaps larger than you could ever imagine, the Bending Reality Course is the perfect launchpad.
Tory Rust
Photographer, Director & Founder of Jinx Studios