Bending Reality

Bending Reality is the innovative process used by billionaire tech founders, CEOs and legendary leaders to make the impossible probable.

Now a Wall Street Journal Bestseller.

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VICTORIA SONG teaches how to unlock the hidden power within your body to get what you want.

After achieving success without fulfillment at Yale University, Harvard Business School and then as a Forbes 30 Under 30 Venture Capitalist, she set off on an unusual quest to study, train, and work with over 24 of the best coaches, therapists and healers in the world. She then deployed the skills and tools she’d learned with a diverse group of the world’s highest performers. Through it all, she’s discovered the codes that enable her clients to bend reality in the direction they want.

By accessing this extraordinary ability, Victoria’s clients have sold a company for 4 billion dollars, grown revenue 1000% during a pandemic, and designed a more effective COVID-19 vaccine.

Victoria reveals the meta-framework behind peak performance, self-development, therapy, and meditation that is accessible for all. Whether you’ve studied these areas closely, or this is your first book on the topic, you’ll have a front row seat to how the world’s elite use this knowledge to collapse time and bend the odds to make the impossible probable.

In this fast-paced guide to success, you will learn how to:

  • Bend reality by mastering two states of being that most people aren’t even aware of
  • Navigate change and face the unknown like the greatest leaders
  • Access creative downloads that artists, musicians and geniuses receive
  • Make your own luck; there’s literally a recipe
  • Find your unique “zone of genius” and live from it every day

Packed with powerful tools and exercises, Bending Reality will move you beyond intellectual understanding to embodiment

This is NOT another mindset book. You’re ready for Bending Reality if you realize it’s time to go beyond the mind and harness the full capacity of your consciousness to make quantum leaps in every area of your life.

After learning how to bend reality, you will no longer need to memorize rules, tips or tricks, but you will embody the essence of a legendary leader who can make the impossible probable.

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Victoria is an exceptional leader and truly independent thinker. Bending Reality reveals her unique insights into the entrepreneurial journey to help founders find success and inner peace along the way. It's the only book I brought with me in my recent move, and I wish I had it when I started Product Hunt years ago.

Ryan Hoover - Founder & Former CEO of Product Hunt, acquired by AngelList

Victoria is able to take complex, abstract concepts and distill them down into a simple working model that is somehow both profound yet obvious once you have it shown to you. As founders who've worked with Victoria through the most stressful and most rewarding years of our lives, we believe everyone should know this. The results have been life changing.

George Ruan and Ryan Hudson - Co-Founders of Honey, acquired by PayPal for $4 Billion

Unconventional wisdom is Victoria's superpower. She profoundly understands human systems and her insights are life changing. Bending Reality is the "How To" Guide for reaching your personal peak without burning out. Building the first electric, hydrofoiling, self-driving boat required all of me. Victoria showed me that my mind can only take me so far and gave me the tools to access resources I didn't even know I had.

Sampriti Bhattacharyya - Co-founder & CEO of Navier, the first electric, hydrofoiling, self-driving boat

Victoria is the real deal. The insights she shares in Bending Reality are a must-read for founders and future founders. You'll be amazed by what you can achieve. Her combination of rigorous strategy insights and ability to go deep into the subconscious mind is unique. She has not only helped execute a challenging pivot towards building next-generation covid vaccines, but, perhaps more importantly, has helped us expand our vision of what HelixNano is and can become: global transformation of human health.

Hannu Rajaniemi and Nikolai Eroshenko - Co-Founders of HelixNano, next-gen mRNA platform

I have never met someone with as much cultivated knowledge as Victoria has in her field. Her framework and tools from her Bending Reality Course have allowed me to grow my company in a direction that I could before, only dream of. This woman is magic.

Bri Ancia - Co-Founder of Ancia

Working with Victoria in her Bending Reality Course has been one of the most eye opening things I've done in my life. It's a cliche that we are often our own worst enemies, but the work I've done with Victoria has helped me deal with huge obstacles I didn't even know that I had.

With her coaching I've elevated my life to a new level and I'm speeding towards goals I didn't think were worth dreaming about. It's surprising how heartwarming, gentle and beautiful this red pill experience with Victoria is, considering how aggressive the results are. I couldn't recommend working with Victoria more, she's a force of nature and will help you propel to new heights, both business and personal.

Mattias Gunneras - Co-Founder at Breakfast

I cannot recommend working with Victoria enough. If you get the chance, I suggest you grab it. Your life will never be the same.

I signed up for the Bending Reality Course because, after years of dabbling in coaching and therapy, I was feeling stagnant and ready to throw the doors wide open to a life of possibilities. Victoria reframes the principles around capacity and success, not just professionally but I have also noticed a marked shift in my personal relationships and the pure enjoyment I get out of each day. My dreams are bigger, my heart is more open and I have so much excitement for what's to come.

Financially, working with Victoria shifted things almost instantaneously. I went from feeling stretched very thin to being in a place of comfort and ease which is allowing me to pursue even more expansive goals. It has been truly life-altering.

Elyse Chambers - Marketing Manager at Decorist

Victoria is unlike any other coach in this industry. She is truly One of the Greats. With full confidence, I can recommend Victoria to anyone who is wanting to grow, heal, and create a more beautiful and meaningful life, one where the possibilities are endless.

Victoria has changed not only my world and how I see it, but also the woman I am living in it. She is a true catalyst! My vision for my life and the impact I have on this earth has evolved and expanded. I've found a calmness in myself and learnt to show up with grace for myself and others through it all. Ultimately, Victoria has helped me to come home to myself and to be truer to who I really am, both in business and in life.

Danielle Gonsalves - COO at

I took Victoria's Bending Reality Course, and I loved it so much that I'm working on bringing her into my company. Victoria delivers powerful insights and tools in a way that intuitively resonates with each person in the room. The caliber of humans drawn to her work makes the group experience uniquely inspiring. I've witnessed the magic and seen Victoria uncover a spark that transforms those around her. Any person or company would be crazy not to hire her.

Anja Dunphy - VP at Avesis

Victoria is by far the best coach I have ever worked with! Her coaching transcends both professional & personal development, providing tools that apply across any goal you're looking to achieve. She's incredibly attentive & detail oriented, constantly tailoring her approach to the various focus areas of her clients. I have been working with Victoria for the past 3 months through her Bending Reality Course - I strongly recommend it!

Henrik Waerland - Project Manager at Specialist

I would take Victoria's other courses in a heartbeat! I left the Bending Reality Course with deep gratitude, trust in myself, and overflowing joy. Victoria's capacity to engage with everyone in all the details of their life is incredible, she's able to tune into your inner feelings and respond with great sharpness.

Her highly structured lessons and exercises brought empowerment and coherency in both the ordinary and extraordinary moments in life. The lessons were simple yet challenging in a sense that I really had to face some truths that I was afraid of or blinded by in the past - With Victoria's sincere support, wisdom and perceptiveness, I was able to grow and open up to higher versions of myself.

I also loved that the course was done in a group setting since everyone's courage and vulnerability magnified each other's compassion and strength to evolve. Victoria's unique teaching method and focused leadership has brought me tremendous peace and clarity - I wish others a meaningful journey with Victoria as well!

Yoon-Young Hur - Founder of Yoon-Young Hur Studio & Artist

I've been working with Victoria in her Bending Reality Course for the past two months - am getting so much value that I'm signed up to continue till the rest of the year.

I'm really grateful for Victoria's coaching and mentorship - she has gotten to the root cause of my limiting beliefs, and I have found her unique approach to mindset work really helpful. My partner also took Victoria's course, and I can see the impact on her as well. I highly recommend working with Victoria!

Tony Tan - Engineering Manager at Meta